Yesterday something kept me thinking about what will I make of my life in the future. The answer I made up in my mind was filled with many 'if's and 'but's. Then I remember the quote Katrina used to say to Hrithik in ZNMD( Zindagi Na Milega Dobara ) that why worry about what is to come, live life to the fullest in every second.
That put me thinking again about how did my life go in the past 22 years. And then I made a list of what has happened in the last 22 years.
The DOWN-SIDES :
- Parents who want me by home by 9 pm everyday.
- A girl who I was crazy about let hell loose on me telling me I was nothing but a show off!
- A bunch of people I took in as friends betray me at every possible chance.
- I lost a friend due to the distance that separated us.
- I got a job where I could waste my time gaining no knowledge for the field I've chosen for my future.
- I found out how bad a good person can change into.
- I learnt how to run away from love.
The PLUS-SIDES :
- The greatest parents in the world who get worried about me if I don't get home by 9 pm.
- A girl who I was crazy about taught me never to treat a person above what they truly deserve.
- A bunch of people I took in as friends taught me never to trust anyone blindly.
- My friendship with a friend was strengthened due to the distance that separated us.
- I got a job where I learnt many things about how to run a company of my own and learnt a lot about the work culture and how different people react to it.
- I found out how good a bad person could change into.
- I learnt how to chase love all life long like kid chasing a lose kite.
Making this ever boring list taught me everything in life comes in pairs. Even when we worry seeing the downside of an event you can be sure that there is always a plus-side for it and all we need to do is find the silverlining and stop worrying.
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